82457acb1a He or she may have some suggestions or may be able to refer you to someone who can help. All Im doing is protecting myself which is totally normal.in a way thank God my 'flight' mode is working!' Now all I have to do is say to my body 'hey everythings fine now. You also feel your not so weird after all when a lot of people have heard about it. She went to a psychotherapist, who suggested that Sultana didnt love her husband enough. Read more. I am able to have sex but requires a lot of patience, once it's in its in, but it can feel uncomfortable, which then I become more stressed. I felt incredibly alone when I'd have staring contests with the dilator kit. Depressed on December 2, 2010 at 4:07 pm I am 32 years old and I think I have this proble becase I would definately like to get married and start a family. What can I do if I have vaginismus?.
So, where was this fear coming from? Was it a fear of STDs or my worst fear of all time pregnancy? Professor Binik explains that its unknown how most phobias develop. It is estimated that women with vaginismus are twice as likely to have a history of childhood sexual interference as non-sufferers. Events thought to contribute range from mild to severe traumas, and include the following: sexual abuse by someone familiar sexual assault pelvic trauma domestic violence highly negative early sexual experiences with a consensual partner 4 Know that relationship difficulties may contribute. Hi. The few studies vary widely on the incidence because most women are too embarrassed to seek help. I had costipation problem and i faced spams pain, now iam fine but then i wont be able to have a successful sex. Fortunately, vaginismus can be treated and cured. I am over 13 or have the permission of a legal guardian Please dont swear or be rude in your comments, as they will not be added to the site. Their frustration was mounting, and her clock was also ticking. I read that you must talk about it.shout it on the rooftops!! Through doing that you come to except it and get more fighting strength.